Proverbs 22 contains numerous wise sayings on a variety of subjects. One of the key points is the value of developing character and reputation, which is deemed more important than material wealth (v. 1). The chapter also emphasizes the necessity of training children early, as spiritual and moral instruction lays the foundation for lifelong faithfulness (v. 6). 

One statement that particularly stands out is found in verse 13, which states, “The lazy man says, ‘There is a lion outside! I shall be slain in the streets'” (New King James Version). This verse speaks to a lazy mindset, where an individual will find any excuse to avoid being diligent in their efforts. Essentially, people often make excuses for their lack of motivation or ability to achieve their goals. 

Common excuses often center on time, money, or overcommitment. For example, many say, “I don’t have enough time,” which is a common excuse for not starting new projects, taking care of physical health, or learning new skills. However, God has given everyone the same amount of time each day—24 hours. So, it is therefore essential to make the best use of our time (Psa. 90:12; Eph. 5:15-16). 

Another common excuse relates to finances. People often cite a lack of money as a reason for avoiding financial education, investing, or other growth opportunities. Although resources do vary, many passages in the Bible encourage us to simply be good stewards of what God has blessed us with, regardless of our income (Mk. 12:41-44; Lk. 16:1-13). We can (and should) be ever mindful of using our financial resources to glorify God (1 Chron. 29:10-20). 

Fear and uncertainty are also factors that lead to excuse-making. This includes fear of failure, fear of the unknown, or fear of not being good enough, often resulting in complaints about why something cannot be done. Instead of dwelling on any potential adverse outcomes, we should take our concerns to the Lord in prayer, and then focus on the work we can accomplish, to the best of our ability (1 Pet. 5:7; Eccl. 9:10)!! 

In any case, some will find any excuse to avoid action, even the most absurd ones. Indeed, many of those excuses result from mere laziness, as the wise man says: “The lazy person proclaims, ‘There is a lion outside! ‘” I shall be slain in the streets.'” Yes, for some, any excuse will do.

Proverbs 21 continues Solomon’s collection of wise sayings. This chapter contrasts the way of the righteous with the way of the wicked, showing that God ultimately directs all outcomes and judges every motive. Solomon notes that pride, deceit, and violence mark the path of the wicked, and that their ways are unstable, ultimately leading to ruin.

4 A haughty look, a proud heart,

And the plowing of the wicked are sin.

5 The plans of the diligent lead surely to plenty,

But those of everyone who is hasty, surely to poverty.

6 Getting treasures by a lying tongue

Is the fleeting fantasy of those who seek death.

7 The violence of the wicked will destroy them,

Because they refuse to do justice.

8 The way of a guilty man is perverse;

But as for the pure, his work is right.

(Proverbs 21:4-8, New King James Version)

In contrast, those who pursue righteousness and mercy find life, righteousness, and honor! Solomon teaches us that God governs all human affairs, and that righteousness, justice, and humility are far more valuable than outward displays of “religion,” or even worldly success.

21 He who follows righteousness and mercy

Finds life, righteousness, and honor.

22 A wise man scales the city of the mighty,

And brings down the trusted stronghold.

23 Whoever guards his mouth and tongue

Keeps his soul from troubles.

(Proverbs 21:21-23)

As New Testament Christians living after the cross, we are fortunate to have the opportunity to read and reflect on such Proverbs. These statements convey truths about the physical realm. Still, we must also consider the complete revelation of Scripture, which assures us of a final reckoning at the end of our physical lives (Jud. 3; 2 Cor. 5:1-11). While some individuals may seem to gain an advantage in their earthly pursuits—achieving notoriety, wealth, and various forms of “success”—it can be discouraging to see that acts of violence often go unpunished in this world.

God has promised to judge the wicked, which should motivate us to abstain from all forms of evil (1 Thess. 5:22; 2 Thess. 2:7-9). Our faith calls us to turn to God through Jesus Christ so that our sins may be forgiven, enabling us to glorify Him through our efforts to please Him (Acts 2:36-38; Eph. 1:7; 1 Jn. 1:9; 2 Cor. 5:12-21). While we may endure suffering here on earth, I pray that each of us, including myself, will place our faith in the One who promises to reward us in eternity for seeking to do what is right in His sight (Rev. 21-22). Let us be content with what He provides here on earth while striving to live for eternity. Amen.

Proverbs 20 offers practical wisdom, emphasizing integrity, diligence, and the sovereignty of God in men’s lives. This chapter also serves as a reminder that wise living flows from a heart shaped by righteousness and humility before the Lord.

No one is pure without God’s cleansing, as verse 9 states: “Who can say, ‘I have made my heart clean; I am pure from my sin?'” (New King James Version). The Lord directs our steps, examines our hearts, and brings justice in His time (vv. 9, 22, 24, 27).

Father, every day that I rise from my bed is an opportunity for me to know and experience Your blessings (Lam. 3:22-23). I want to maintain a mindset ready to work and take the responsibilities You have entrusted to me seriously. May I be an honest and hard worker, trusting in You to lead me in every way (Gal. 6:9). Through Your providential care, may You provide with grace, and help me to be a person of integrity, doing my very best in every opportunity that comes my way.

Proverbs 20 also emphasizes that the righteous walk in integrity, noting that God detests dishonest weights and measures. True success is therefore built on character and truthfulness, not deceit or shortcuts (vv. 7, 10, 17, 23).

Solomon also writes about how the wise value effort and foresight. Verse 4 says, “The lazy man will not plow because of winter; he will beg during harvest and have nothing.” Verse 13 adds, “Do not love sleep, lest you come to poverty; open your eyes, and you will be satisfied with bread.” Indeed, laziness leads to poverty, while diligence leads to provision.

Oh God and Father, I want to be a worker for the Lord. I want to trust in Your holy word and be used in Your service (Matt. 20:1-16; 1 Cor. 15:58; Jas. 2:18).

Solomon also warns against drunkenness and lack of restraint, saying, “Wine is a mocker, strong drink is a brawler, and whoever is led astray by it is not wise” (Prov. 1:1). A wise person, therefore, maintains control over their desires and appetites rather than being mastered by them!

This chapter portrays the life of wisdom as being rooted in self-control, integrity, diligence, humility, and dependence on God’s guidance. It warns against impulsive actions and deceitful gains, calling us to walk uprightly, speak wisely, and trust in the Lord’s righteous governance in all things.

God, I will take seriously the blessings You have afforded me. Each day presents an opportunity for me to do my best and glorify You by serving others. May I have the strength and resolve to overcome the weight of sin, which easily ensnares, and look to Your Son, Jesus, as a model for disciplining my life with sobriety and self-control (Heb. 12:1-2)!!

In chapter 19 of the book of Proverbs, a prominent theme is the necessity and value of discipline and correction. Solomon emphasizes that the wise person embraces instruction, while the fool rejects it to their own detriment. 

Verse 18 states, “Chasten your son while there is hope, and do not set your heart on his destruction” (New King James Version). Though the world teaches young parents to soothe children’s emotional outbursts with anything but a stern approach, God teaches that parental correction is an act of love and protection.

Verse 25 states, “Strike a scoffer, and the simple will become wary; rebuke one who has understanding, and he will discern knowledge.” While our society often promotes the belief that “no one else tells me what to do” as a form of independence, God says that accepting correction is beneficial for both the wise and the inexperienced.

Furthermore, verse 27 warns, “Cease listening to instruction, my son, and you will stray from the words of knowledge,” highlighting that ignoring discipline can lead to moral and spiritual decline. I cannot count how many times that, in my youth, various authority figures tried to reach and steer me away from the destructive path that I was on. Now that I am an adult, I pray that I will remain open to any necessary course corrections. Can you and I both adopt such attitudes?

Together, such verses as the ones above teach that correction & accountability are central to spiritual growth & moral stability. They reinforce the broader message that wisdom requires humility—a willingness to learn, be disciplined, and change. Conversely, fools often bring trouble upon themselves and others; and while their choices lead to destruction, they tend to even blame God for the outcomes of their own actions (vv. 3, 29). 

The message is especially relevant today, as we live in a time when many parents fail to discipline their children, resulting in a lack of respect for authority figures as these children grow into adulthood. Such a lack of respect often manifests in schools through unruly behavior toward teachers, and later, in adolescence & adulthood; even through rebellion against community authorities such as employers, law enforcement officers, and lawmakers (yes, there are some in positions of authority that do abuse their power, but that is the exception, rather than the rule). 

By teaching children the importance of honoring correction and personal responsibility at home, we can build stronger families, healthier communities, and even a more stable union (Eph. 6:1-4, 5-9; Rom. 13:1-7). Understanding that correction & accountability are essential aspects of Christian living, we (even as adults) must remain open to correction—from God first, and from those He has placed in positions of rightful authority (Heb. 12:3-11; 1 Pet. 2:11-17). Such a humble, teachable spirit will enable us to lead more productive lives in service to both God, and our fellow man!

Proverbs 18 emphasizes the power of words. One’s speech holds the power of life and death, meaning they can provide healing, encouragement, and wisdom, or cause harm, division, and ruin (v. 21). The wise speak with restraint and discernment, while fools reveal their ignorance through careless talk (vv. 6, 7, 8, 13). 

How many problems between people could be avoided simply by refusing to engage in gossip and/or slandering others? Heed God’s wisdom! 

A fool’s lips enter into contention, and his mouth calls for blows. A fool’s mouth is his destruction, and his lips are the snare of his soul. The words of a talebearer are like tasty trifles, and they go down into the inmost body (vv. 6-8, New King James Version).

The chapter contrasts the prudent with the foolish, portraying the fool as self-centered, uninterested in understanding, and quick to speak (vv. 1, 2). In contrast, the wise person seeks knowledge and exercises good judgment (vv. 4, 15, 18). Additionally, the chapter warns against partiality and encourages careful listening before making decisions (vv. 5, 17). 

Have you known anyone who had to have everyone’s attention all the time? How about one who is so very quick to voice their opinion, only to be let down once they are fact-checked? I certainly don’t want to be known as one who is constantly, boisterously, and impetuously speaking before I think. Heed God’s wisdom! 

A man who isolates himself seeks his own desire; he rages against all wise judgment. A fool has no delight in understanding, but in expressing his own heart (vv. 1-2).

The 18th chapter concludes with a reflection on the value of loyal relationships: “A man who has friends must himself be friendly, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother” (v. 24). This verse highlights the blessing of faithful companionship grounded in love and trust!

I desire to be that friend whom others can rely upon. I also wish to gain from the valuable contributions of others. If there is one thing I am sure of, it is that I do not know everything! May God guide us all into a more wisdom-filled existence, and may we use our speech to communicate with, and about, others more faithfully. Let’s heed God’s wisdom!!

The name of the Lord is a strong tower; the righteous run to it and are safe (v. 10).

Proverbs 17 outlines Solomon’s wisdom regarding relationships, speech, integrity, and the condition of the heart. 

Key themes include a preference for peace and contentment over wealth, as a quiet, calm home is often considered more desirable than one filled with feasting and conflict (v. 1). True happiness is found in spiritual harmony, not physical abundance. 

Lord, help me to be grateful for what You provide and to focus on truly good things. May this focus permeate throughout my home, where my wife and children reside, fostering a deep commitment to spiritual wellness. Provide a physical increase, therefore, only as You see fit. 

Another key theme in this chapter is the testing of character. Just as fire refines silver and gold, the Lord tests the hearts of people (v. 3). God often uses trials to reveal and strengthen character! 

Father, I pray You will provide me with circumstances to enable spiritual, mental, and emotional growth. Surround me with others who will facilitate such development and do the same for my wife and children. 

The value of wisdom and understanding is another significant theme. Wise individuals learn from correction while fools resist it. The discerning person keeps their eyes on wisdom, while the fool’s attention continually wanders (vv. 10, 24). Additionally, wise people choose their words carefully, as even silence can reflect understanding. Moreover, controlling one’s tongue is a sign of true wisdom (vv. 27, 28). 

Father, help me to overcome the distractions in my life. With social media, entertainment options, and the like, it’s so easy to become distracted instead of pursuing a closer and more profound connection with You. I desire greater focus upon the spiritual realities of the universe You’ve created. Teach me to control my thoughts, tongue, and actions so that I may glorify You in all things! 

This chapter also discusses familial relationships (vv. 6, 21, 25). Family can bring both joy and grief; as a wise child honors their parents and brings them pride, while a foolish child causes sorrow and regret. 

Father, I want to bring You joy! Therefore, I pray for strength and wisdom to grow and behave appropriately in every circumstance. I also want to make my earthly father proud; I wish to lead my children in seeking Your will, too, as there is no greater joy than knowing my children walk in truth! 

Justice and fairness are also addressed (vv. 15, 23, 26). God detests unjust practices, such as justifying the wicked or condemning the innocent. Indeed, integrity in judgment reflects God’s righteousness. 

We live in a world where many oppose what is good while promoting evil. It’s easy for me to notice this trait in others, but I must remain vigilant against showing partiality based on personal preferences & relationships. Father, enable me with wisdom and boldness to be both just and impartial, ALWAYS seeking to exercise Your will. 

Concerning friendship and loyalty, Solomon states, “a friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity” (v. 17, New King James Version). Genuine love and loyalty are proven in times of hardship! 

Father, I want to be a loyal friend, first and foremost to You, but also to others who rely upon me. May I never neglect, nor give up, on those who are struggling; strengthen my resolve to be compassionate, just as Jesus, continually supporting and serving others. 

Finally, the chapter touches on self-control & patience (vv. 14, 19). It is wise to stop quarrels before they escalate; those who love strife invite destruction. And overall, Proverbs 17 teaches that wisdom is reflected in peaceful relationships, controlled speech, moral integrity, and steadfast love. 

Oh, Father, envelop me with Your wisdom, and may I utilize it ALL! Grant me wisdom and strength, and I hereby commit to using your blessings properly!! Be with me, ALWAYS, Father!!! Amen.

People can make plans and set goals, but the Lord determines the final results. The sixteenth chapter of Proverbs emphasizes the importance of seeking God’s will and aligning our intentions with His purposes. The following verse effectively summarizes this idea: “A man’s heart plans his way, but the Lord directs his steps” (Proverbs 16:9, New King James Version).  

Oh God (El Shaddai), I genuinely want to plan my life with wisdom. As I seek to do my very best, may I find comfort in relying on You to bring true success into my life. I want to do Your will above all else. Please uphold me in the good things, and steer me away from those that would be evil in Your sight. 

In this chapter, we see that God values honesty, justice, and integrity, especially in leadership and decision-making (vv. 10-13). A righteous ruler acts in accordance with truth and fairness, reflecting God’s moral character. 

God, I also ask those in positions of authority within this country to govern in a manner that fosters a quiet and peaceful life for all people. Furthermore, I pray that the leaders of our nation seek counsel from You to establish the moral fabric of this land. 

Proverbs 16 further emphasizes the importance of wisdom in speech and conduct. As we have seen throughout, words hold power; they can bring life, instruction, and healing when spoken wisely and graciously: “The heart of the wise teaches his mouth and adds learning to his lips. Pleasant words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the bones” (vv. 23-24). 

God, grant me the skill to communicate more effectively; that You will be glorified, and that grace may be given to hearers. 

This chapter also teaches about the dangers of pride and the value of humility. Where pride leads to downfall, humility leads to honor and safety (vv. 18-19). These verses highlight a recurring biblical truth: humility is essential to opening the door to receiving God’s blessings. 

God, the world sure seems to reward those who are prideful and selfishly ambitious. May I find comfort in Your ways, and may You reward me with inner peace for seeking to be a humble man in Your eyes.

Finally, we read in this chapter about the Lord’s justice & guidance (vv. 25-33). Not every path that seems right to a person leads to life, but God weighs motives, guides choices, and brings about justice. The lot may sometimes appear random, but even chance events are under God’s control (v. 33)! 

Oh God (my Father and Master), without You, I am nothing. I open my heart and my life to You: to lead me, use me, and even try me. Rule my steps and lead me on the path You would have me take. May Your providential care be ever-present with me, amen!

Proverbs 13 draws a sharp line between the wise and the foolish, showing how choices shape the direction of a person’s life. It begins by reminding us that wisdom starts with being teachable—someone who listens to correction grows, while a mocker shuts the door to learning (vv. 1, 10, 13-16, 18). The chapter often ties wisdom to speech and work: wise words build up and protect, but careless talk can destroy; hard work brings steady reward, while laziness leads to lack.

It also reminds us that real wealth isn’t just about money—it’s about living a life well (vv. 7, 11, 25). Honest gain lasts, but wealth without integrity fades quickly. The chapter also touches on parenting, showing that loving discipline is part of true care (v. 24). It paints a picture of the righteous leaving a legacy—not only in possessions, but in values and example (v. 22). Throughout, the message is clear: a wise life is one shaped by discipline, integrity, and reverence for God.

These proverbs still hit home today. They urge us to listen before reacting, to work hard rather than cutting corners, and to value character over fleeting success (1 Thess. 4:11-12). In a world that prizes comfort and fast results, God calls us back to patience and consistency (Gal. 5:22-23; Rom. 12:12). For parents, we are reminded that correction done in love helps children grow strong (Eph. 6:1-4; Col. 3:20-21). And for all of us, God challenges us to speak carefully, manage our resources wisely, and live in a way that leaves a lasting legacy behind (2 Tim. 1:5; 3:14-17).