The phrase “grace, mercy, and peace to you from God the Father and our Lord Jesus Christ,” or slight variations of it, appears as a standard Apostolic greeting in several books of the New Testament (1 Tim. 1:2; 2 Tim. 1:2; 2 Jn. 1:3). While some scholars suggest that these salutations blend Greek greetings with the Hebrew concept of “Shalom,” it is worth examining the meanings of these words, because such expressions are not merely salutations in letters; they are WORDS OF INSPIRATION from the apostles themselves, to Christians. If words have meaning—and they do—it is worthwhile to consider the significance behind these expressions. 

Grace

For instance, the word “grace” means favor. No one can earn God’s favor through meritorious works. However, many passages teach us that the favor extended by God is indeed conditional (Jn. 3:16; Eph. 2:8-9). One must accept Jesus as both Savior and Lord, and only then may one have favor extended by God through the blood of Jesus Christ (Rom. 6:23; Acts 4:12). That said, this favor is, indeed, a gift from God!! Paul wrote to Titus, “But when the kindness and love of God our Savior toward man appeared, not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to His mercy He saved us through the washing of regeneration and renewing of the Holy Spirit, whom He poured out on us abundantly through Jesus Christ our Savior, that having been justified by His grace we should become heirs according to the hope of eternal life” (Titus 3:4-7 New King James Version). Receiving that letter from the inspired apostle would be very encouraging, especially since the grace (favor) Paul speaks of comes from God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ, our Savior Himself (v. 1:4)! So then, these are not merely words on a page; they are intentions & extensions of goodwill, expressed by the Holy Spirit.

Mercy 

It has been said that grace IS RECEIVING that which one does NOT DESERVE, while mercy equates to NOT RECIEVING what one DOES DESERVE! The Bible clearly teaches that all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and that the wages of sin are death. Yet, many passages in the New Testament also illustrate God’s overwhelming compassion and welcome for a repentant person, such as the parable of the prodigal son (Lk. 15:11-32). This powerful message of concern is reinforced in numerous passages! Paul spoke of how we were spiritually dead already, “But God, who is rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us, even when we were dead in trespasses, made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have been saved), and raised us up together, and made us sit together in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus, that in the ages to come He might show the exceeding riches of His grace in His kindness toward us in Christ Jesus” (Ephesians 2:4-7). Through Jesus, we continue receiving that which we do not deserve (God’s favor), while not receiving what we actually do deserve (the wrath of God)!! Let us not dismiss such lofty thoughts through a mere exercising of linguistics (Eph. 1:2).

Peace

The thought of peace will not hold such significance if we do not recognize the turmoil that comes with its absence. Looking at the world, we see it torn apart by heartache, filled with the devastations of war, and the tragic losses of human life. People are often distraught, experiencing emotional upheaval and deep heartbreak as evil continually brings chaos into this sin-cursed world. When reflecting on these realities, we may also consider the impact that our own sins have, upon our own souls. With a tender conscience, upon hearing the gospel, you’ll thus understand the turmoil in your heart over your contributions to evil. There should be heartache because of the sins that have seperated us from God. But thanks be to God, that while we were once enemies, Christians have been reconciled to our Creator through the blood of Jesus (Rom. 5:6-9). Christians must ever acknowledge our desperate need for a Savior! And the peace we now enjoy is because of the spiritual restoration brought through God’s mercy AND grace! We long to share that message of reconcilliation with others so that they, too, can find peace with the Father. Only by realizing how shallow and empty life is without Christ, can we appreciate the true beauty of the peace that Jesus offers. “For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God through the death of His Son, much more, having been reconciled, we shall be saved by His life. And not only that, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.” (Rom. 5:10-11)

More Than a Salutation

The terms “grace,” “mercy,” and “peace” appear frequently throughout the New Testament epistles. These may have (indeed) been standard greetings at the time they were written, but speaking as the Bible reads is a noble endeavor… And if words hold any meaning—which they certainly do—then we should recognize that these terms carry deep theological significance. Let us strive to appreciate the sentiments expressed in these words more fully. And may the fact that the apostles extend grace, mercy, and peace, “from God the Father and our Lord Jesus Christ,” prompt careful consideration on our part.

I don’t care how strong your relationship with God is; if you put yourself in situations where you’re tempted in an ungodly way, especially with the opposite sex, you are asking for trouble (Num. 25:1-9; 1 Cor. 10:8). Likewise, I don’t care how mentally strong you think you are. The strongest person who ever lived had a weakness concerning the opposite sex (Jdg. 14:1-3; 16:1, 4-21). Lastly, it doesn’t matter how wise or intellectual you believe you are in navigating temptation. Even the wisest man who ever lived, aside from Jesus, had a significant weakness in dealing with women (1 Ki. 11:1-13; Neh. 13:26). 

The reason I bring this up is that people often find excuses to place themselves in risky situations, which is unwise at best (Prov. 7:16-23). 

So, what does this look like? Consider the following examples: 

Social Media & Online Communication: Engaging in private conversations online, or via text, with someone other than your spouse can lead to temptation. The perceived secrecy and emotional intimacy created through texts, or specific apps, can quickly cross boundaries. If you are married and text someone of the opposite sex, it would be wise to include your spouse in the thread.

Social Activities: Even simple things done together without your spouse present can create situations where temptation is more likely to arise. When I hear people talk about how their “best friend” is a member of the opposite sex (yet they’re in a relationship, or married, to someone else), I cannot help but recoil—this sort of thing fools no one but yourself.

Workplace Interactions: Frequently meeting one-on-one with a coworker of the opposite sex in isolated or private settings, especially after work, inherently increases the likelihood of developing an inappropriate relationship. This is particularly true in roles that involve close collaboration or travel. To avoid such temptations, maintain clear professional boundaries, avoid those isolated one-on-ones, and focus strictly on work-related interactions.

In summary, rather than making excuses for knowingly putting yourself in dire situations, let’s follow God’s advice on fleeing temptation (Gen. 39:11-12; 1 Cor. 10:11-13). 

While there will be situations we cannot avoid and should respond to appropriately, we must also be wise enough to understand our own limitations and weaknesses. It doesn’t matter your covenant relationship with God, how strong you think you are, nor how wise you believe yourself to be. Recognize that Satan has always used the temptation of unlawful advances from the opposite sex to lead people into fracturing their relationship with God, and others. Pray and respond accordingly (1 Cor. 6:18-20).

Proverbs 22 contains numerous wise sayings on a variety of subjects. One of the key points is the value of developing character and reputation, which is deemed more important than material wealth (v. 1). The chapter also emphasizes the necessity of training children early, as spiritual and moral instruction lays the foundation for lifelong faithfulness (v. 6). 

One statement that particularly stands out is found in verse 13, which states, “The lazy man says, ‘There is a lion outside! I shall be slain in the streets'” (New King James Version). This verse speaks to a lazy mindset, where an individual will find any excuse to avoid being diligent in their efforts. Essentially, people often make excuses for their lack of motivation or ability to achieve their goals. 

Common excuses often center on time, money, or overcommitment. For example, many say, “I don’t have enough time,” which is a common excuse for not starting new projects, taking care of physical health, or learning new skills. However, God has given everyone the same amount of time each day—24 hours. So, it is therefore essential to make the best use of our time (Psa. 90:12; Eph. 5:15-16). 

Another common excuse relates to finances. People often cite a lack of money as a reason for avoiding financial education, investing, or other growth opportunities. Although resources do vary, many passages in the Bible encourage us to simply be good stewards of what God has blessed us with, regardless of our income (Mk. 12:41-44; Lk. 16:1-13). We can (and should) be ever mindful of using our financial resources to glorify God (1 Chron. 29:10-20). 

Fear and uncertainty are also factors that lead to excuse-making. This includes fear of failure, fear of the unknown, or fear of not being good enough, often resulting in complaints about why something cannot be done. Instead of dwelling on any potential adverse outcomes, we should take our concerns to the Lord in prayer, and then focus on the work we can accomplish, to the best of our ability (1 Pet. 5:7; Eccl. 9:10)!! 

In any case, some will find any excuse to avoid action, even the most absurd ones. Indeed, many of those excuses result from mere laziness, as the wise man says: “The lazy person proclaims, ‘There is a lion outside! ‘” I shall be slain in the streets.'” Yes, for some, any excuse will do.

Proverbs 21 continues Solomon’s collection of wise sayings. This chapter contrasts the way of the righteous with the way of the wicked, showing that God ultimately directs all outcomes and judges every motive. Solomon notes that pride, deceit, and violence mark the path of the wicked, and that their ways are unstable, ultimately leading to ruin.

4 A haughty look, a proud heart,

And the plowing of the wicked are sin.

5 The plans of the diligent lead surely to plenty,

But those of everyone who is hasty, surely to poverty.

6 Getting treasures by a lying tongue

Is the fleeting fantasy of those who seek death.

7 The violence of the wicked will destroy them,

Because they refuse to do justice.

8 The way of a guilty man is perverse;

But as for the pure, his work is right.

(Proverbs 21:4-8, New King James Version)

In contrast, those who pursue righteousness and mercy find life, righteousness, and honor! Solomon teaches us that God governs all human affairs, and that righteousness, justice, and humility are far more valuable than outward displays of “religion,” or even worldly success.

21 He who follows righteousness and mercy

Finds life, righteousness, and honor.

22 A wise man scales the city of the mighty,

And brings down the trusted stronghold.

23 Whoever guards his mouth and tongue

Keeps his soul from troubles.

(Proverbs 21:21-23)

As New Testament Christians living after the cross, we are fortunate to have the opportunity to read and reflect on such Proverbs. These statements convey truths about the physical realm. Still, we must also consider the complete revelation of Scripture, which assures us of a final reckoning at the end of our physical lives (Jud. 3; 2 Cor. 5:1-11). While some individuals may seem to gain an advantage in their earthly pursuits—achieving notoriety, wealth, and various forms of “success”—it can be discouraging to see that acts of violence often go unpunished in this world.

God has promised to judge the wicked, which should motivate us to abstain from all forms of evil (1 Thess. 5:22; 2 Thess. 2:7-9). Our faith calls us to turn to God through Jesus Christ so that our sins may be forgiven, enabling us to glorify Him through our efforts to please Him (Acts 2:36-38; Eph. 1:7; 1 Jn. 1:9; 2 Cor. 5:12-21). While we may endure suffering here on earth, I pray that each of us, including myself, will place our faith in the One who promises to reward us in eternity for seeking to do what is right in His sight (Rev. 21-22). Let us be content with what He provides here on earth while striving to live for eternity. Amen.

Proverbs 20 offers practical wisdom, emphasizing integrity, diligence, and the sovereignty of God in men’s lives. This chapter also serves as a reminder that wise living flows from a heart shaped by righteousness and humility before the Lord.

No one is pure without God’s cleansing, as verse 9 states: “Who can say, ‘I have made my heart clean; I am pure from my sin?'” (New King James Version). The Lord directs our steps, examines our hearts, and brings justice in His time (vv. 9, 22, 24, 27).

Father, every day that I rise from my bed is an opportunity for me to know and experience Your blessings (Lam. 3:22-23). I want to maintain a mindset ready to work and take the responsibilities You have entrusted to me seriously. May I be an honest and hard worker, trusting in You to lead me in every way (Gal. 6:9). Through Your providential care, may You provide with grace, and help me to be a person of integrity, doing my very best in every opportunity that comes my way.

Proverbs 20 also emphasizes that the righteous walk in integrity, noting that God detests dishonest weights and measures. True success is therefore built on character and truthfulness, not deceit or shortcuts (vv. 7, 10, 17, 23).

Solomon also writes about how the wise value effort and foresight. Verse 4 says, “The lazy man will not plow because of winter; he will beg during harvest and have nothing.” Verse 13 adds, “Do not love sleep, lest you come to poverty; open your eyes, and you will be satisfied with bread.” Indeed, laziness leads to poverty, while diligence leads to provision.

Oh God and Father, I want to be a worker for the Lord. I want to trust in Your holy word and be used in Your service (Matt. 20:1-16; 1 Cor. 15:58; Jas. 2:18).

Solomon also warns against drunkenness and lack of restraint, saying, “Wine is a mocker, strong drink is a brawler, and whoever is led astray by it is not wise” (Prov. 1:1). A wise person, therefore, maintains control over their desires and appetites rather than being mastered by them!

This chapter portrays the life of wisdom as being rooted in self-control, integrity, diligence, humility, and dependence on God’s guidance. It warns against impulsive actions and deceitful gains, calling us to walk uprightly, speak wisely, and trust in the Lord’s righteous governance in all things.

God, I will take seriously the blessings You have afforded me. Each day presents an opportunity for me to do my best and glorify You by serving others. May I have the strength and resolve to overcome the weight of sin, which easily ensnares, and look to Your Son, Jesus, as a model for disciplining my life with sobriety and self-control (Heb. 12:1-2)!!

In chapter 19 of the book of Proverbs, a prominent theme is the necessity and value of discipline and correction. Solomon emphasizes that the wise person embraces instruction, while the fool rejects it to their own detriment. 

Verse 18 states, “Chasten your son while there is hope, and do not set your heart on his destruction” (New King James Version). Though the world teaches young parents to soothe children’s emotional outbursts with anything but a stern approach, God teaches that parental correction is an act of love and protection.

Verse 25 states, “Strike a scoffer, and the simple will become wary; rebuke one who has understanding, and he will discern knowledge.” While our society often promotes the belief that “no one else tells me what to do” as a form of independence, God says that accepting correction is beneficial for both the wise and the inexperienced.

Furthermore, verse 27 warns, “Cease listening to instruction, my son, and you will stray from the words of knowledge,” highlighting that ignoring discipline can lead to moral and spiritual decline. I cannot count how many times that, in my youth, various authority figures tried to reach and steer me away from the destructive path that I was on. Now that I am an adult, I pray that I will remain open to any necessary course corrections. Can you and I both adopt such attitudes?

Together, such verses as the ones above teach that correction & accountability are central to spiritual growth & moral stability. They reinforce the broader message that wisdom requires humility—a willingness to learn, be disciplined, and change. Conversely, fools often bring trouble upon themselves and others; and while their choices lead to destruction, they tend to even blame God for the outcomes of their own actions (vv. 3, 29). 

The message is especially relevant today, as we live in a time when many parents fail to discipline their children, resulting in a lack of respect for authority figures as these children grow into adulthood. Such a lack of respect often manifests in schools through unruly behavior toward teachers, and later, in adolescence & adulthood; even through rebellion against community authorities such as employers, law enforcement officers, and lawmakers (yes, there are some in positions of authority that do abuse their power, but that is the exception, rather than the rule). 

By teaching children the importance of honoring correction and personal responsibility at home, we can build stronger families, healthier communities, and even a more stable union (Eph. 6:1-4, 5-9; Rom. 13:1-7). Understanding that correction & accountability are essential aspects of Christian living, we (even as adults) must remain open to correction—from God first, and from those He has placed in positions of rightful authority (Heb. 12:3-11; 1 Pet. 2:11-17). Such a humble, teachable spirit will enable us to lead more productive lives in service to both God, and our fellow man!

Proverbs 18 emphasizes the power of words. One’s speech holds the power of life and death, meaning they can provide healing, encouragement, and wisdom, or cause harm, division, and ruin (v. 21). The wise speak with restraint and discernment, while fools reveal their ignorance through careless talk (vv. 6, 7, 8, 13). 

How many problems between people could be avoided simply by refusing to engage in gossip and/or slandering others? Heed God’s wisdom! 

A fool’s lips enter into contention, and his mouth calls for blows. A fool’s mouth is his destruction, and his lips are the snare of his soul. The words of a talebearer are like tasty trifles, and they go down into the inmost body (vv. 6-8, New King James Version).

The chapter contrasts the prudent with the foolish, portraying the fool as self-centered, uninterested in understanding, and quick to speak (vv. 1, 2). In contrast, the wise person seeks knowledge and exercises good judgment (vv. 4, 15, 18). Additionally, the chapter warns against partiality and encourages careful listening before making decisions (vv. 5, 17). 

Have you known anyone who had to have everyone’s attention all the time? How about one who is so very quick to voice their opinion, only to be let down once they are fact-checked? I certainly don’t want to be known as one who is constantly, boisterously, and impetuously speaking before I think. Heed God’s wisdom! 

A man who isolates himself seeks his own desire; he rages against all wise judgment. A fool has no delight in understanding, but in expressing his own heart (vv. 1-2).

The 18th chapter concludes with a reflection on the value of loyal relationships: “A man who has friends must himself be friendly, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother” (v. 24). This verse highlights the blessing of faithful companionship grounded in love and trust!

I desire to be that friend whom others can rely upon. I also wish to gain from the valuable contributions of others. If there is one thing I am sure of, it is that I do not know everything! May God guide us all into a more wisdom-filled existence, and may we use our speech to communicate with, and about, others more faithfully. Let’s heed God’s wisdom!!

The name of the Lord is a strong tower; the righteous run to it and are safe (v. 10).

Proverbs 17 outlines Solomon’s wisdom regarding relationships, speech, integrity, and the condition of the heart. 

Key themes include a preference for peace and contentment over wealth, as a quiet, calm home is often considered more desirable than one filled with feasting and conflict (v. 1). True happiness is found in spiritual harmony, not physical abundance. 

Lord, help me to be grateful for what You provide and to focus on truly good things. May this focus permeate throughout my home, where my wife and children reside, fostering a deep commitment to spiritual wellness. Provide a physical increase, therefore, only as You see fit. 

Another key theme in this chapter is the testing of character. Just as fire refines silver and gold, the Lord tests the hearts of people (v. 3). God often uses trials to reveal and strengthen character! 

Father, I pray You will provide me with circumstances to enable spiritual, mental, and emotional growth. Surround me with others who will facilitate such development and do the same for my wife and children. 

The value of wisdom and understanding is another significant theme. Wise individuals learn from correction while fools resist it. The discerning person keeps their eyes on wisdom, while the fool’s attention continually wanders (vv. 10, 24). Additionally, wise people choose their words carefully, as even silence can reflect understanding. Moreover, controlling one’s tongue is a sign of true wisdom (vv. 27, 28). 

Father, help me to overcome the distractions in my life. With social media, entertainment options, and the like, it’s so easy to become distracted instead of pursuing a closer and more profound connection with You. I desire greater focus upon the spiritual realities of the universe You’ve created. Teach me to control my thoughts, tongue, and actions so that I may glorify You in all things! 

This chapter also discusses familial relationships (vv. 6, 21, 25). Family can bring both joy and grief; as a wise child honors their parents and brings them pride, while a foolish child causes sorrow and regret. 

Father, I want to bring You joy! Therefore, I pray for strength and wisdom to grow and behave appropriately in every circumstance. I also want to make my earthly father proud; I wish to lead my children in seeking Your will, too, as there is no greater joy than knowing my children walk in truth! 

Justice and fairness are also addressed (vv. 15, 23, 26). God detests unjust practices, such as justifying the wicked or condemning the innocent. Indeed, integrity in judgment reflects God’s righteousness. 

We live in a world where many oppose what is good while promoting evil. It’s easy for me to notice this trait in others, but I must remain vigilant against showing partiality based on personal preferences & relationships. Father, enable me with wisdom and boldness to be both just and impartial, ALWAYS seeking to exercise Your will. 

Concerning friendship and loyalty, Solomon states, “a friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity” (v. 17, New King James Version). Genuine love and loyalty are proven in times of hardship! 

Father, I want to be a loyal friend, first and foremost to You, but also to others who rely upon me. May I never neglect, nor give up, on those who are struggling; strengthen my resolve to be compassionate, just as Jesus, continually supporting and serving others. 

Finally, the chapter touches on self-control & patience (vv. 14, 19). It is wise to stop quarrels before they escalate; those who love strife invite destruction. And overall, Proverbs 17 teaches that wisdom is reflected in peaceful relationships, controlled speech, moral integrity, and steadfast love. 

Oh, Father, envelop me with Your wisdom, and may I utilize it ALL! Grant me wisdom and strength, and I hereby commit to using your blessings properly!! Be with me, ALWAYS, Father!!! Amen.